Thursday, August 13, 2009

Annoying. Simply annoying.

Hui Qing and the girl who always sits one seat away from me in Wee Tat's class (Jia Ling, I think?) are constantly jabbering away, leaving me no peace. Ugh. Nowadays, I feel more distanced from society than ever. It won't be long when I'll finally be a total social outcast, not only from this class, but also from the entire country... and soon, through the help of the Internet, probably pretty much the rest of this pathetic Earth, too.

So, Chester and the gang had went ahead and watch "Where Got Ghost?" without me after Roy's class today. I kept on telling myself that I had no reason to be bothered by this one little silly issue, but the matter of fact, as much as I try and deny it, is that it should be a matter to be concerned with.

Ugh, having so much trouble trying to gather my thoughts with those loud female high-pitched voices by my ear...

By abandoning me (even if it was by accident, assuming that it was), my (only remaining) circle of friends showed me just how fragile I am in this social cycle. I mean, not much regard is given to me most of the time while I'm in class. In other words, after eight months of effort in fitting in, I've not succeeded in being someone worth caring about.

I told Guo Wei yesterday that it occurred to me that nobody ever talks about their social issues and problems in life. Part of me told him that because it is a fact - other than the girls at occasional times, the guys just talk about shallow stuff, as far as I know. The other part of me wrote that (through Windows Live Messenger) because... nobody gave a fuck about my life. But, I didn't mind that, and probably still don't. For me to be hurt by people not caring about me, I'll have to care about those people first. I don't care about my classmates (much), so, I guess that's why I'm not so pained by this, and it probably fits fair for them to treat me the same way.

I mean, I tried to care. I tried to fit in. But, it's getting so tiring. With the recent departure of my Secondary School buddy, Jordan Teo, hope is starting to diminish. However, I await here for a savior of my life, as that's the only thing I could do now.

I feel numb and empty on the inside. Almost every week, I had the thought of suicide, trying to bring this pointless living into reason. Yet, I have no balls. No only will it be a painful procedure, but the end result is not pretty either. I'm more than sinful, and suicide guarantees a straight trip to burning hell without trial, according to my mum. So, I'm left here, wandering through the oceans of agony for what feels like an eternity after another.

Still kinda miss Jordan at this point. As heartless as he seemed to be when he let me go instead of messaging me something on that fateful day a couple of weeks back, in this moment of desperation, I could only reach up towards the only person who allowed me to be myself, the only person who gave a shred of concern about my pitiful life. And, he was as much of a film buff as I was, if not acted like one for my sake. So, even if all these had been an act, even if all these was phony illusion, those memories were happy, and I miss them.

I miss the times Ng Yong Yao was with me, too. How he lectured me. At least he cared enough to lecture me. God, he was mature, and such a good friend. He was almost the perfect one compared to my Primary School mate, Caleb Chan and Jordan. He studied in Queensway Secondary with me, too, till about June at the first year I was held back in Sec 3, when he transferred to another school. Kinda wish that he remains my friend till this day right now. Pathetic, really, having to think about him only when I'm in peril.

Wee Tat is rushing me about my work. Heh. Kinda hate it how I have the need to blog immediately upon having the urge - or not blog at all. I mean, I couldn't try and remember what I want to blog right now, go home and post it later - I won't feel like blogging by then. The disadvantage to that is that my post will be publicly viewed as I type the post. Even though the final post could be viewed by the public, not everyone will make the troublesome attempt to read the post, as compared to someone passing by and catching sight of my writing. Luckily, these people, as I wrote, don't give a fuck.

Should I talk to Jordan again? Will he even talk to me at all after I just ditched him like that because he made one too many mistakes? I did tell him it wasn't out of hostility, but out of desperation - out of my natural instinct to lessen my pain. Why should I be the one who feels guilty in this picture when I'm the victim? Hm. Guess that's life's little twisted irony.

Calling him again will be painful, and it won't be a short pain. He won't answer my call as he never did nowadays, rendering me determined enough to continue calling. And then, finally, when he does answer the call, I will face an angry tirade of 'fuck yous' and 'I'm done with this friendship.' Chances of all these happening: 80%.

Guess now isn't the time for me to trouble myself with these social problems, what with my academical problems building up, too.

Just thought of something. Guo Wei said that my classmates only tell about their social issues to the people who they trust. I trust people. All I need is one person to ask... but, it won't help in the long process anyway, especially if he/she doesn't aid me throughout this course in my mentality.

I'm not doing very well in my academical area nowadays. I'm late for lessons or entirely miss them. I had little to no sleep. I feel like a suicidal attempt isn't necessary anymore to guarantee a death for me. I feel like each part of me is dying away, wilting.

I might never become a filmmaker in the future, achieving my dream, especially if I don't start working hard right now. Pity. I always wanted to make a film account of my life, had always thought my life is conflictual and twisted enough to make a movie about it. If this be a film, then this place, ITE, will be the second to last place of my final damnation, the aspect of the film where the 'resolution' is supposed to be before the ending/conclusion. The NS will be my place of death, probably. Not having a fine education background, I'll probably be pushed to perform physical work, and what with my overflowing flam and poor stamina, Death is practically standing by the borders of the army site.

Will anyone discover this story and make a movie out of it on my behalf? I doubt it. But, He moves in mysterious ways, as they (including Satan in "End of Days") said, so we never know. I'm gonna brood over whether if I should make a call to Jordan. I might just send him a message first, just in case he won't pick up. I know that he is my last hope of salvation - ironically, as I abandoned him to seek salvation.

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